The Voice in Our Heads   We all know the voice.  The one in our heads that is constantly looking to the past or projecting to the thousands of possibilities of the future.  You know the one that judges  The one that whispers we’re not ready. The one that says someone else is better. The one that suggests maybe we should just scroll instead. The one that says this has been done. The who will do anything to put our ideas aside and make us passive observers of the things, the lives that we really want.  That voice doesn’t

  Why We Seek Critique There comes a moment in every creative life when applause stops being enough.  Social media seems to excel at this… “Nice work.” “Beautiful.” “Love this.” It feels good. It always will. But eventually, if we’re serious about growing, we want something deeper. We want to know what we’re not seeing.  What we really want is feedback, constructive criticism, critique that will show us what we might have over looked.  So why do we seek critique? Not for validation. Not for approval. But for clarity. Sometimes we seek critique because we want to know if our

  I’ve been thinking about critique for years. About encouragement. About ego. About growth. This series is my attempt to put language around what actually helps us become better creatives. The Practice of Becoming implies this is ongoing. Not mastery. Not arrival. Not “ten steps to excellence.” It suggests a workshop that never closes, lights left on, tools within reach. I want this to be an ongoing practice in my life. This series explores what helps us grow as creatives. Not just technically, but internally. I’m less interested in perfect answers and more interested in better questions. My current goal